In today’s world, where national pride often borders on nationalism, the concept of public narcissism has gained significant attention. Research suggests it has profound effects not only on group dynamics but also on individual mental health particularly loneliness.
Public Narcissism vs. Healthy National Pride
Public narcissism is characterized by the belief that one’s country is exceptional but insufficiently recognized by others. This contrasts with healthy national pride, which reflects a secure and positive connection to one’s country. Unlike healthy pride, public narcissism stems from insecurity and a need for external validation.
People with high levels of public narcissism often exaggerate their knowledge about their country, show distrust toward fellow citizens, and use manipulative tactics for personal gain. This fragile form of national pride can lead to social and psychological challenges.
Key Findings
A study titled '“Exceptional and Lonely?”' explores how public narcissism and loneliness affect one another. Data from Poland revealed a strong link between public narcissism and loneliness after accounting for overlap with healthy national pride in a sample of 633 adults. In contrast, a secure and positive connection to one’s country was negatively associated with loneliness, suggesting that healthy national pride can act as a buffer against social isolation.
A follow-up study reinforced these findings with a six-month longitudinal approach, surveying 811 participants. The researchers discovered a two-way relationship: individuals with high public narcissism were more likely to feel lonely over time, and those experiencing loneliness tended to develop stronger narcissistic tendencies. This cycle suggests that public narcissism and loneliness reinforce each other, trapping individuals in a pattern of social isolation and defensive national pride.
Public Narcissism Fails to Fulfill the Need to Belong
According to researchers, the root of public narcissism lies in personal insecurity and unmet psychological needs. People high in public narcissism seek validation for their country’s importance but often feel this recognition is lacking. This unfulfilled expectation can lead to feelings of being misunderstood and socially disconnected. Furthermore, their manipulative and self-serving behavior can alienate others, deepening their sense of loneliness.
While social identities such as being part of a sports team or book club are known to enhance well-being, public narcissism does not offer these protective benefits. In fact, it may worsen feelings of isolation, contrasting sharply with the idea that belonging to a group improves mental health.
Implications for Society
Understanding the connection between public narcissism and loneliness has far-reaching implications. Politically, individuals with high public narcissism may be more susceptible to divisive rhetoric and conspiracy theories, as seen during the COVID-19 pandemic. This dynamic can hinder collective action and weaken social cohesion.
Conclusion
Public narcissism, driven by insecurity and a need for validation, not only damages group relations but also harms individual well-being by fostering loneliness. Recognizing and addressing this relationship is crucial for building healthier societies and fostering more connected individuals.